What does Bible say about forgiveness

How can I forgive?What does the Bible say about forgiveness? Well forgiveness is one of the primary themes of the Bible. It is also one of the hardest themes at times to live out. I know in my own life that there has been many times that I struggled with forgiveness and what the scriptures say concerning forgiveness. So I want you to know that as I write this article, I am not pointing fingers or trying to get preachy on you. I am just trying to lay out for you the basic concepts of forgiveness and what does the Bible say about forgiveness.

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What does the Bible Say about Forgiveness?

The Bible says that we must be forgiven by God 

This is by far the most important lesson on what does the Bible say about forgiveness. If we miss this lesson than it does not matter what else we do concerning forgiveness. It will have all been for nothing. In 1 John 1:9 it says that we need to confess our sins to God and He will forgive us. Now many people because of their upbringing, when they hear the word sin, think of things like not smoking, not chewing, not drinking or going out with women who do! But honestly the definition of sin in the bible is a term that was taken from archery. It means to miss the bulls-eye. Every single one of us at one time or another in our life has missed it. We have made a mistake and not done what we knew we were supposed to do, myself included. So the first thing a person needs to do is make sure they are in a right relationship with God. Just as you would go to your friend or loved one when you blew it, you need to go to God and ask for forgiveness. He will forgive you.


What does the Bible say about forgiveness when it comes to forgiving others?

Peter asked Jesus a question about forgiveness in Matthew 18:21-35 where he asked how many times should we forgive somebody. He asked if 7 times was enough. I think Peter here was thinking to myself that 7 times would be asking a lot and being real magnanimous. Jesus said, not 7 times but 77 times. The point being that forgiveness is to be a lifestyle not an event. That is where the challenge comes in. It might be easy to forgive someone a couple of times, but how do you have a lifestyle of forgiveness. How do you keep forgiving someone who then turns around and does the same thing to you time and time again?


What does the Bible say about forgiveness in learning to forgive others?

Continuing on in that Matthew 18 passage Jesus tells a parable of a rich ruler who was calling in all of his unpaid debts. One man owed the ruler a very large sum equal to a modern-day amount of a million dollars. The man who owed the debt fell down at the ruler’s feet and asked for the debt to be forgiven. The ruler forgave the debt and let the man go. As the man was leaving he ran across somebody who owed him 20 bucks. The man demanded the that the debtor pay him back. The debtor did the same thing that the man had done with the rich ruler. He asked him to forgive the debt. However the man refused and took him to court and had him thrown in debtors prison until he paid the debt. Well as you have it, the ruler heard about this and was outraged and took away the forgiveness that the man had received and had him thrown into jail. The principle in all this is that we can forgive and find it in our hearts to forgive when we remember how much God has forgiven us. It is when we demand payment for the emotional debts that a person has laid up in our heart, that we lose sight of how much we have been forgiven and we end up being just like the man who refused to forgive, we end up in an emotional and spiritual prison, tormented by the thoughts of how wounded and hurt we have been and how unjust it all is. So the Bible teaches that the way to forgive is to remember how much you have been forgiven. Do you see now why it is so important to make sure you have gone to God to ask forgiveness for what you have done wrong?


Finally my friends, I just want to encourage you. If you are struggling with forgiving yourself, then you need to ask to be forgiven for making yourself God and being the judge. You are judging yourself. That is not your job. Your job is to receive forgiveness. 1 John 2:12 says that your sins have been forgiven because if His name. If you have received Christ as your Lord and Savior, then you are forgiven. The things you have done have been thrown into the sea of forgetfulness and have been separated from you as far as the east is from the west. Stop playing God and just be a grateful servant who is glad that your mistakes, your sins have been erased.

Blessings

Pastor Duke

About the Author:

Pastor Duke Taber has been a believer in Jesus for 33 years. He has been a pastor for over 20 years currently serving at the Vineyard church in Pine Haven Wyoming and was formerly the secretary treasurer of White Pine County Ministerial Association. He is an alumnus of LIFE Bible College and Multnomah Biblical Seminary. He is a syndicated blogger at The Christian Post and Believe.com

PastorDuke – who has written posts on Taber's Truths Christian Living Magazine.


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6 Responses to What does Bible say about forgiveness

  1. Robert Scott says:

    Forgiveness as presented in the gospels in an non-negotiable.

    http://www.wayfarersquest.com

  2. Robert Scott says:

    Forgiveness as presented in the gospels in an non-negotiable.

    http://www.wayfarersquest.com

  3. Anonymous says:

    We all think how wronged we are and how unjust life is but just think about Jesus. He did only good and then was repaid with torture and execution. Pretty unfair right? Looking at those that nailed Him to the cross and called for His death He uttered the words that still ring in my soul. Father forgive them they know not what they do. To me this is the greatest miracle in scripture for it shows His heart was wounded before His body was. Forgiveness is the first step in reconciliation. How Great is our God! OHhh and forgiveness creates legacy. Wrath destroys and erodes value. Forgiveness shows the forgiven is more valuable than our indignation. Phantom

  4. Lisa says:

    Early in my Christian walk a met a woman who had just burried her ex-husband. The circumstances were just incredible. He had left her for another woman. When this happened, she actually went to him and told him she forgave him. I couldn't believe how she could do it. She explained that by doing so, she was following God's word and also stopping the Devil from planting roots of bitterness within her heart which could hinder her from doing God's work. A few months after their divorce, the ex-husband found out he had terminal cancer. The girlfriend threw him out AND the ex-wife took care of him until he passed. Wow!

  5. Lisa says:

    Early in my Christian walk a met a woman who had just burried her ex-husband. The circumstances were just incredible. He had left her for another woman. When this happened, she actually went to him and told him she forgave him. I couldn't believe how she could do it. She explained that by doing so, she was following God's word and also stopping the Devil from planting roots of bitterness within her heart which could hinder her from doing God's work. A few months after their divorce, the ex-husband found out he had terminal cancer. The girlfriend threw him out AND the ex-wife took care of him until he passed. Wow!

  6. Jessica M says:

    Great post. Loved the scripture and thoughts in regards to forgiveness. Forgivness is the pathway to healing and is the way to be liberated from the snares of resentment and bitterness.
    Loved the video too.
    ~blessings